M.B.: WHAT is your name ? WHAT is your quest ? WHAT is
your favorite color ?
My name is Kim Justice, really, it is. My quest is to
live an authentic life, as an unintentional muse and provocateur, and to create
lasting connections with the ones I love. Red.
S.J.: What is your history with the Purple Rose
Society? We're local, yet somehow it seems you snub us. I've always wondered
what happened to draw your disinterest.
I’ve attended one PRS class/play party. And as you
know, I was asked to present a class but unfortunately had to cancel due to a
scheduling conflict.
Are you viewing it as a snub because I don’t attend?
It’s just not my scene, but there are several reasons I don’t attend. I
am not usually interested in dungeon parties. People are often paired up
and why pay to use equipment when I can enjoy the play space in my home?
Leather events have a very different energy then kink events. It’s just
that I prefer leather events.
B.R.: I'm a novice but I want to explore the leather
scene. How do I start?
Do a bit of research on basic protocols (common courtesy
always serves one well too) then get yourself to an event! If going to a
large event like CLAW or IML seems to daunting at first, start small by going
to a back patch club's bar night or local fundraiser. Talk to the people you discover
rapport with and doors will start opening.
D.C.: Any thoughts on/comments in the area of
BDSM, spirituality, energy, and peace?
I’m not into the “WOOOOOOO” flavor of BDSM where most kinky
practices have to be somehow connected to all spirituality, but accepting the
varied aspects of me is crucial to the way I function in life.
Experiencing power exchange is massively rewarding; at the
same time both energizing and grounding and experiencing the
dominant/submissive dynamic provides a sense of harmony to daily life.
D.C.: If memory serves, you used to have chastity in
your list of fetishes on FL though now you don't. What was the original draw?
(I'm always curious what the top/dom/key holder gets out of chastity) Why did
you take it off? Was the draw not as keen as you'd originally thought? And all
of that but you still list orgasm control...
I was mostly being approached by submissives who wanted to be
in chastity, 100% of the time, which does not interest me at all. And, I
was being approached by men who want to be cuckolds only. I believe some
people are under the assumption, if you’re polyamorous and kinky, then you must
be into (multi-partner, random) cuckolding. I felt it was limiting the
sorts of people who would contact me, so I removed it from my fetishes.
(My next blog has a cuckolding vein to it.)
I’ve never been a “key holder” but have at times directed a submissive
to remain chaste for a period of up to three weeks. As a dominant, I
enjoy the elements of control and the knowledge that even though the submissive
might want to touch themselves, they will not. I also find the building
of sexual energy to be erotic. I ended their period of chastity because I
wanted to share sexual intimacy and pleasure with them.
For me, orgasm control is hot; never-ending chastity
isn’t. Why cut my nose off to spite my face??!?
J.E.: I guess I'm kind of curious how often you've had
things get to the edge or beyond your comfort level and how you recover from
that.
In play or life? In BDSM play, the majority of my
experience is as a dominant, and the well being of the people I play with has
always been of primary importance. I can say As far as I’m aware of, I’ve
never taken a play partner past their comfort levels. I have had scenes,
on the edge and at the request of the submissive, which have inspired me to
explore and stretch my own comfort levels. For those experiences, I’m
thankful. I’ve never had things go too far in a negative fashion.
Have I had life circumstances get to the point of get “to
the edge or beyond your comfort level”? Of course! I think if
we’re living a successful life we’re exploring and being intentional about not
falling into complacency. I’ve recovered by processing each circumstance,
being responsible for my role, and learning from the situation.
E.J.: Why are you so damn sexy? 
I love your photographs, what is your
inspiration for some of your poses and "scenes"?
I love your photographs, what is your
inspiration for some of your poses and "scenes"?
Thank you! Sexy is in the mind of the seer, I believe.
All of my portraits, with the exception of the one taken by Jesse Fox, have
been taken by Michael or self-portraits. They have been low-tech, with
basic cameras, and taken with what is simply in or around the house. I’ve
tried to be creative with what I have.
M.S.: First, are you aware of anything in your
childhood or teen years that influenced your interest in the lifestyle that you
currently live?
My parents had a leather club chair when I was a child.
I remember being seated in it and feeling good. I liked the way the
leather felt to the touch and it's fragrance.
I was also supported and encouraged to be an individual, to
take the knowledge I was given on how to be a good person, and be a
free-thinker and make my own choices. My parents bought me cars, trucks,
make-up, and dolls to play with. On a similar note, I recently found my
toy handcuffs while sorting through some old boxes in my parents
basement. Wonder Woman comics were kinky as hell and very dominant woman
focused in the late 70's-early 80's.
In the early 1980’s music videos had subtle erotic
overtones, and it was a Duran Duran video where I noticed brief silhouetted
clips of female dominance and the use of chains to bind. I found it
intriguing.
M.S.: Second, do you have any fetish that even some of
your closest friends would think was a little bizarre?
I don’t think so…. But, if you’re reading and I squicked you
out with a fetish of mine, give me an e-mail!
M.S.2: Do you play with women and non-bio boys?
Yes! I believe I’ve played with every possible gender
and sexuality combination possible on the Kinsey Scale.
M.M.: What do you enjoy most about living a Poly life?
The possibilities for uncommon love and strong relationships
based in honesty, friendship, awareness, caring, respect, and passion; the
freedom and happiness I experience as a polyamorous woman contributes greatly
to my happiness.
A.W.: Can I see you naked?
I always feel it’s better to conceal then to reveal while
out and about (or on the internet). But, if we find ourselves in the
right place and time, you show me yours and I’ll show you mine.
